Respect your elders–even ‘though they may become fewer and fewer in number left on this earth
Take care of your body–no new models are available
Make friends with and understand your ego. When it is out of control you will need to counsel it and put it in your pocket.
Take your medicine everyday and know what it is and why you are taking it.
Exercise every day
Learn something new every day
Think, think, think—everyday
Never stop seeking adventure. Never stop dreaming
Take a nap everyday even if it’s only a two minute one.
Listen–listen to the birds, listen to the wind, listen to your children–even after they have become adults.
Measure your worth and accomplishments according to your own values–not those of others.
April 2, 2012
About the Author
Betsy has been active in the GLBT community including PFLAG, the Denver women’s chorus, OLOC (Old Lesbians Organizing for Change). She has been retired from the Human Services field for about 15 years. Since her retirement, her major activities include tennis, camping, traveling, teaching skiing as a volunteer instructor with National Sports Center for the Disabled, and learning. Betsy came out as a lesbian after 25 years of marriage. She has a close relationship with her three children and enjoys spending time with her four grandchildren. Betsy says her greatest and most meaningful enjoyment comes from sharing her life with her partner of 25 years, Gillian Edwards.