Muleshoes, by Jude Gassaway

Interesting
spell check fact:  the correct spellings
are horseshoe and mule shoe; I am talking about shoes for a mule, not pumps for
a drag queen.
MULESHOES
Knowing
the difference between horseshoes and muleshoes might be esoteric knowledge,
yet it might occasionally come in handy. 
A horse’s hoof is circular in shape and a mule’s hoof is a long
oval.  A blacksmith-forged, custom-made
iron shoe reflects the shape of each hoof.
In
June 1974, as a newly minted field geologist, I got a summer job in Death
Valley. The Tenneco Company had recently purchased borax mining and mineral
interests from the Kern County Land and Cattle Company. This included an
operating borate mine in Death Valley National Monument, a borate processing
plant in nearby Nevada, and numerous mining claims and prospects in the
region.  We were hired to relocate and
reassess the mineral properties, and to search for new mineral prospects.  Field geologists are always looking for
things, and some discoveries are real surprises.
The
dozen summer hires found lodging in the Amargosa Hotel, Death Valley Junction,
at a cooler elevation than the valley floor. The hotel was a formerly exclusive
establishment.
I
have never seen a bathroom with such elegant tile work.  We had full access to the unused hotel
kitchen, especially the refrigerators. 
Outdoors, the tiled swimming pool was filled to the brim with wind-blown
sand.
The
hotel’s phone number was Death Valley #3. 
Another unexpected find, this was the last twelve party telephone system
in the USA.  To use the phone, you held
the receiver to your ear and wound the crank. 
When the Operator answered, you told her the phone number you wished to
be connected to.  As you continued your
call, you’d occasionally turn the crank in order to keep the central battery
charged.  Also, you got used to hearing
clicks on the line as the other party-line members listened in.
There
was no radio or TV reception in the area, and the party-line was a way for
far-flung neighbors to keep in touch and to be entertained.  And we, the summer geologists, were the
newest game in town.  We learned to use
the more private dial-up phone at the Tenneco plant in Nevada, some nine miles
away.
Another
discovery was Stateline, the bar en route to the plant.  It was run by Sandy, formerly the head hooker
at Ash Meadows Brothel, now closed.  The
menu was cocktails, beer, coffee, top ramen, and hard-boiled eggs.  The naked lady painting behind the bar,
rescued from the whorehouse, had been painted by Marta Becket, the ballerina at
the Amargosa Opera House.  But that’s
another story.
Tenneco
sent me and another geologist on reconnaissance to the southern Mojave Desert
for July and August.  At 2000 feet,
Barstow was much cooler than Death Valley Junction.  At night, it cooled off to below 100
degrees.   I had to borrow a sleeping
bag!
In
the Calico Mountains, we followed Mule Canyon Road to the abandoned town of
Borate (1894-1907).  Mule Canyon is a
narrow canyon in soft shale, cut by iron-shod mules pulling iron-clad wheeled
freight wagons.  Borate’s open pit borax
mine yielded 900 thousand tons of ore. 
One principle use for borates then, as now, is for laundry and cleaning
products (Boraxo).
The
site of the town dump, now piles of rusty cans and wire, is called “Tin Can
Alley”.  All that was left of the town
were several dirt streets and a few pieces of concrete foundation. There were
many broken bottles and bits of iron, suggesting that bottle hunters had
already explored the site. I found many waist-high cone-shaped piles of loose
dirt with bits of broken glass scattered about the townsite.  The whole danged town had been sifted by the
bottle hunters.  Sifted!  Dang!
We
moved on to look for rock outcrops with promise of borax. That’s why we were
there.  A short incline led to a flat
railroad bed.  Rails and ties had been
removed many years ago.  The narrow bench
was all that was left of the Borate & Daggett Railroad.  Soon we found a pile of rusty artifacts: the
dump for the blacksmith’s shop.  Lying in
the twisted metal scrap were a dozen used muleshoes. Wow! TWENTY MULE TEAM
muleshoes.
Relics
that had been missed by the relic hunters. 
A bonanza!
© May 2017
About
the Author
 
Retired USGS Field Geologist.
Founding member, Denver Womens Chorus 

Still Learning, by Betsy

I recently learned that I
am not good at doing things at the last minute. 
That is why I am writing this piece now–after the date that the topic
was to be shared.  We got home Saturday
from a trip to California where among other things, Gill and I were married. I
could not get a piece on “Still
Learning”
together in a short two days.
A couple of things I
learned on this recent trip come to mind now that I have had time to process
the experiences for a week or so. Here are a few items of note.
On the subject of
personal relationships: After 26 years together with my partner a marriage
ceremony and a license do not make a big difference in our lives, but I have
noticed that since making my vows I feel a deeper level of commitment to my
partner.  Perhaps commitment is not the
right word, rather more of a reminder to love and to cherish.  Speaking aloud and hearing these words in a
ceremony gives more true meaning to the words and reminds me of their
importance and the value of the commitment.
I am reminded of the
topic “Straight Friends Who Love Me?” 
These friends of whom I wrote back in 2012 really do love me.  My cycling buddies with whom we had the
reunion were truly excited about our marriage. 
They were so excited they wanted to be there for the ceremony.  They wanted to be there so badly that we had
an extra ceremony–albeit unofficial–in their presence. 
The straight women on my
tennis team from the Denver Tennis Club were so excited about our marriage that
they are giving a party for Gill and me. 
Every one of them is coming. Every one of them is straight.  They have shown extraordinary support and
acceptance and are going out of their way to do so.
On the subject of
geology: In our travels to Southern California we came across many geologic
phenomena. When traveling west on the ground, one always does.   We spend a couple of days in a place neither
of us had every visited before; namely, Death Valley.  I have never thought much about Death
Valley.  Considered it to be a “dead”
place in the desert–a small valley between mountain ranges.  First, I learned that it is not small, it is
not dead, and it is surrounded by mountains on all sides.  The towering peaks surrounding it are
responsible for its extraordinary and unique geologic characteristics. The fact
that it is surrounded by mountains is the reason it is the hottest place on
earth and the driest place in the U.S. Death Valley is huge–140 miles long and
15 miles at its widest point.  Death
Valley is also the lowest place in the US. 
Furthermore, it is sinking faster than it is filling up.  The valley once was a lake, only 2000 years
ago.
On the subject of
spirituality: In the last few days I have also learned that we create our own
misery.  How and why?  Because we have egos which want to be fed
constantly.  Our egos are not our true
selves.  If we identify with our egos, we
are looking at a false image of ourselves. The image is a reflection of how
others see us.  This is a false image of
who we really are–our true selves.  Once
we understand this we are on the road to identifying with our true selves.  Our true selves–our souls, if you will,
cannot be controlled and manipulated by others or by society as our egos can
be.  The next time I have a negative
feeling because of the way someone has treated me or something someone has said
or not said to me–the next time that happens I am going to watch my ego, not
feed it, not deny it, just watch.  Then I
can tell myself that I am creating my own misery by having a needy ego.
A young brain may absorb
information faster, but I believe some things are learned only after, and as a
result of, decades of experience in living. 
I’m glad I’m still learning every day. It’s never too late for an “aha”
moment and we can never have too many.
© November 2013 
About
the Author
 
 Betsy has been active in
the GLBT community including PFLAG, the Denver Women’s Chorus, OLOC (Old
Lesbians Organizing for Change), and the GLBT Community Center. She has been
retired from the human services field for 20 years. Since her retirement, her major
activities have included tennis, camping, traveling, teaching skiing as a
volunteer instructor with the National Sports Center for the Disabled, reading,
writing, and learning. Betsy came out as a lesbian after 25 years of marriage.
She has a close relationship with her three children and four grandchildren.
Betsy says her greatest and most meaningful enjoyment comes from sharing her
life with her partner of 30 years, Gillian Edwards.